DITCH THE DISCUSSIONS ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE’S APPEARANCES
Want to be less mean without doing anything? Stop commenting on other people’s appearances. While you may think that what you’re saying is flattering, some people are uncomfortable when they feel like their appearance is being judged.
That friend you’re praising for their weight loss might be dealing with a health issue, and the one you say “looks tired” might feel just fine—and neither is likely to appreciate your comments.