Don’t give yourself an out
Commit to a regular enjoyable activity, like a monthly racquetball game or cooking class, with your partner or friends. “You’re more likely to follow through on a commitment to someone else than to yourself,” notes Schulte. “It leaves you no choice but to relax!” One of the rare times when I truly unwind: my bimonthly girls’ game night, where we play Scattergories, snack extensively, and laugh our heads off. But thanks to all this inspiration, I no longer have to wait weeks to relax for real.
