Date around
Dr. Kirschner recommends, to start by dating several guys at the same time. For a couple of reasons: First, you’re not putting all your eggs – or hopes – into one basket. Second, you can compare what you like and don’t like. Maybe one guy is very funny, but you enjoy another man’s intellectual stimulation. “You can see what you might want in a relationship going forward,” she says, even if it’s not with any of these guys.